For most guys, the initial reaction to the noise is the "I am doing it
well" feeling. After a while, it gives way to the "what if someone
hears" followed by "can't she just be a little less loud" and ending
with "is she faking it."
Sometimes women really get expressive during sex.
Expressiveness
in this regard can come in form of flyi
play
ng limbs, tensed up bodies,
scratching, biting, moaning and... talking, rambling actually.
It can be fun and a good morale booster for many men to hear the woman making sounds as he pounds away.
But, the thoughts are not always pleasant.
The tone, loudness and style of the sex noise can affect the way it is perceived and appreciated.
Here are some of the things men think at those times:
- I'm a sex god and I must be doing a great job.
- We're connected on a different level.
- What if my neighbours can hear us?
- How would my neighbours look at me after this?
- What if someone thinks I'm killing her and calls the police.
- Can't she just lower her voice a little?
- I wish I had this recorded so I can boast with it when I meet the guys.
- Could she be faking it (when it gets too loud and prolonged).
- Is she into me or into the sex?
For most guys, the initial reaction to the noise is the "I am doing it well" feeling. After a while, it gives way to the "what if someone hears" followed by "can't she just be a little less loud" and ending with "is she faking it."
Interestingly, when she is finished moaning, it feels suddenly quiet.
So guys, do you like loud sex? Ladies, are you loud?